In every position...fielding, hitting and pitching the situation is different every pitch. Your player needs to know how the count affects the situation. This post will be for a hitter:
0-0: Hit away. Your box is super small. You are looking for one pitch and that is your favorite pitch. Anything else you leave alone.
1-0: Same thing. Looking for that one pitch you want to drive. You are ahead in the count.
0-1 Called Strike: The pitcher is ahead of you and will probably throw it there again later in the count. Make sure you are aware of where the location was and keep your eye out for the next pitch. You are behind in the count but not pressing to put the ball in play yet. Take your time and still be selective.
0-1 Swinging at a ball: Hey first pitch of the at bat, be more selective. Dont get so caught up in swinging at the first pitch. Make sure its yours and you can get a solid hit.
2-0: Way ahead. She is about to pitch a fatty or something near to it. You better be ready to rip the ball.
1-1: Not behind. Still in a good count. Still be selective.
0-2: Now you have to open your box and have a defensive swing. You must make contact with anything close and hope she misses somewhere on the plate. Now just bc its 0-2 doesnt mean your swing changes you just open your strike zone more. The most relaxed two strike hitters are the best two strike hitters
2-1: You are ahead. She doesnt want to go 3-1 so its going to probably be more fat that off the plate. Gear up and be ready to hit.
2-2: its a 50:50 shot. She is either going to come with it or stray away from the plate depending on how aggressive you have been in the at bat. Stay focused and dont press. You are looking for a mistake and laying off junk pitches
3-1: HITTERS COUNT!! She has to pitch a strike. Be very selective but ready to hit!
3-0: TAKE! I dont understand why people swing on 3-0. Why? Crowd the plate...make that glove look so small and put the pressure on her. If you go 3-1 you are still in a good count. Have confidence you can hit with one strike on you.
3-2: Anything close. You would rather foul it off than get ringed up on a call. Be aggressive and take the at bat into your hands. Don't leave it up to the ump.